Wilma Jones - Living Happier

  • Home
  • Meet Wilma
  • Speaking
  • Blog
  • HuffPost Contributor
  • The Book: Is It Monday Already?!
    • Endorsements
    • Media
  • Contact

Stressed On the Job Post-Election? Try This Amazing Tip

December 14, 2016 by Wilma Jones

Stressed at the job post election

As a lifelong resident of the Washington, DC metropolitan area, I have a lot of friends and family who are federal employees or contractors. Or their business or the place they work sells or supports a business connected to the federal government market. The stress level for many people is greatly increasing because of fear or concern about the changes the president-elect plans to make to our government and thereby, our country. Those who work in trade and foreign policy have expressed to me that when the subject has been raised in a lunch conversation or two  among their colleagues-friends they were not hopeful, happy discussions.

It’s in times like these that practicing mindfulness can be a big benefit to your day-to-day life. If you oppose the new president elect’s policies you can fight it through your individual protest on your free time, complain on social media or support organizations that are working against his goals. But when you’re at the day job, you’re there to do your job. All my professional friends and family members have been through changes in the executive branch before. We all know that how you feel about this new climate we are entering in our country has not a thing to do with the job you are expected to perform. But rather than let this next 4 years add more stress to your life, I’d like to suggest you consider mindfulness. It will reduce the stress that goes along with your concern and feelings of uncertainty about what might happen.

Mindfulness is all about being in the present moment. It’s learning to stop for short breaks during the workday to breathe deeply and train your mind to focus on now. Right now. Three minutes of deep breathing really can change your life.

A researcher from Harvard University, Herbert Benson authored a book in 1975 titled, “The Relaxation Response,” which used scientific research results to prove that short periods of meditiation focused on breathing can change the body’s response to stress. Basically they’ve proven that if you practicing mindful breathing exercises changes your body’s reaction to stress and you no longer releasing stress hormones throughout your body. Your blood pressure goes down, not up. That shallow breathing that we all experience when we’re getting all spun up is no longer.

In a follow up book published in 2010 titled “Relaxation Revolution,” Benson uses further research to prove that breathing can even change the activity of our body’s cells. This is a fascinating idea that confirms that by learning to use your breathe you can make your mind change your very cellular existence!

It’s science like this that makes me love mindfulness. This is why I believe that practicing mindfulness at work gives you your power back. People, processes and policies don’t get on your last nerve anymore. You can change your day and even begin the process of changing your life simply by taking a few mindful breathing breaks everyday.

If you have health problems, mindful breathing has a huge added health benefit. It has been proven to help reduce blood pressure. Yes, incorporating a deep breathing practice can help to improve your blood pressure. There are a  host of other health benefits, too.  Curious about how to start? Check out this video by one of the masters of mindfulness, Jon Kabat-Zinn.

Filed Under: Mindfulness Tagged With: deep breathing, herbert benson, managing your thoughts, Mindfulness, stress, stress after 2016 election

Workplace Stress: The #1 Amazingly Simple Tool to Fight It

June 27, 2016 by Wilma Jones

workplace stressWorkplace Stress:
The #1 Amazingly Simple Tool to Fight It

The primary source of stress for American adults is our job. Depending upon the source, estimates range from a high of 80 percent to a low of 65 percent of workers reporting feeling stressed at the job. A study by the National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health cited 40 percent of respondents felt their job was “very or extremely stressful.” Over one quarter of the survey respondents feel their job is the number one source of stress in their lives.

People feel stressed at the job for a variety of reasons but the primary culprit is workload. Simply put, we are doing more work with fewer people. Many people can relate to workload issues because this problem is not specific to any one industry. Organization leadership gives workers more responsibility with less authority. As a result we feel constrained in our ability to get the job completed without lots of policies and process issues. Escalation to senior management is needed to get issues resolved, which creates delays and backlogs.

Another big source of job stress is the people we work with. It’s a fact of life that conflict between people exists in every organization. Sheesh, it exists in our families so you know there is no way to avoid conflict on the job! Between dealing with people’s personalities and quirks, the third primary source of work stress is finding the  work/life balance that fits your family.

Alright, so stress is a big issue and it affects a lot of people. But it’s not just on a personal level. Stress costs big dollars to businesses. Fairleigh Dickinson University estimates that “workplace stress costs U.S. employers an estimated $200 billion per year in absenteeism, lower productivity, staff turnover, workers’ compensation, medical insurance and other stress-related expenses.”

There are lots of suggestions and strategies experts have provided to help us combat work stress. Many of them deal with prioritizing your day and learning to control our responses to work aggravations, which are excellent suggestions for relieving stress.

One solution that is often overlooked or downplayed that should be moved to the top of the list is breathing. Yes, deep breathing is a simple but super-effective solution to helping workers overcome the effects of workplace stress.

It’s a fact that deep breathing changes the ph of your blood. Deep breathing has been proven to lower your blood pressure, heart rate and stress hormone levels in our body. It lowers the levels of lactic acid in your muscles. Deep breathing strengthens the immune system and increases your energy level while giving you a sense of calmness.

So you’re thinking this all sounds good, but it’s not realistic to try to incorporate deep breathing sessions into your day. I get you. I am busy just like you and I found myself only stopping to breathe deeply when something totally irritated me. Like when I was thinking in the back of mind what I’d really like to say about something.

I knew I needed to go take a quick walk or do something to lower my stress. But sometimes that isn’t possible.

I discovered a smart phone app that helps me to add 3-4 deep breathing breaks into my day and I’m loving it. The Hear and Now app is available on the App Store. It uses the phone flash to measure your blood flow. I put my headphones on and listen to the calming music. The app measures my heart rate and breathing quality by evaluating the pulse changes in the blood flowing through the veins in my finger. Then the short breathing exercise begins. I captured a few screen shots of the process for you:

hear and now 1hear and now 2hear and now apphear and now 4hear and now 5hear and now 6hear and now 8hear and now 13hear and now 9hear and now 10hear and now 11Hear and now 12

It’s really simple to use. However, when you first start you’ll be surprised by how shallow you are breathing. Especially if you’re a little pissed off when you start the exercise. Over a 3 week period I experienced a big difference in my ability to breathe deeply as reported by the results. But more importantly, the notifications remind me to take just a few moments every day to focus on breathing – more often and more deeply.

This app is an easy way to start incorporating a bit more mindfulness to your day. Would you use a smart phone app to add more mindfulness to your workday?

Filed Under: Mindfulness Tagged With: breathing, deep breathing, hear and now app, stress, workplace stress

[optinform]

Contact

Wilma Jones
Wilma J, LLC
[email protected]

The Latest From The Blog

commuting in the 21st century

Thoughts on Mindful Commuting in the 21st Century

Whether you’re a business owner or an employee a few things about working life are pretty consistent. Unless you’re one of the small percentage of  soloprenuers who work from home with no human interaction. For the remainder of us we all have to deal with coworkers. But first we have to manage our commute. In […]

Meet Wilma

Wilma J Author, speaker, workshop leader, sales executive, community activist. Learn more.   
Learn More

Copyright © 2023 · Enterprise Pro Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in